Darcy Fowler
Darcy Fowler
28 days ago
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3 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before Having Plastic Surgery

We'll uncover the often-unspoken realities, from unexpected recovery challenges to the emotional rollercoaster, helping you navigate your journey with greater clarity and preparedness.

Undergoing plastic surgery is such a big deal because it’s your identity; it’s a small but significant representation of yourself, and though some don’t admit it, our appearance is an important part of who we are and can have impacts on our confidence and mental and emotional well being so of course when you consider changing it permanently, it’s a big ordeal and should be taken very seriously.

I chose to undergo plastic surgery because it’s something I had wanted changed for years and that’s completely fine, while I am very aware a lot of it stems from insecurities due to external patriarchal pressures that are imbedded into my brain but I can’t help but feel a certain way about it, and I think a lot of women can agree in that circumstance.

While I didn’t get the surgery for external approval, just overall it made me feel better, but deep down it has to stem from somewhere, and the only probable answer is that one. However, as someone who has undergone surgery, it seems only fitting to talk about the 4 things I wish I had looked into but also that someone had told me to ensure I was not only making the right decision but also in the safest hands.

Do Your Doctor Research

I know these days a lot of people go to surgeons based on knowing someone else who has gone because you already feel safe and comfortable with that choice, because your friend looks great and she has no issues. However, if you are getting a completely unrelated surgery, whether it’s a breast reduction instead of a breast augmentation in Manchester your friend had, you should still look into surgeons who have built up a reputation, case studies and testimonials from that specific surgery.

Research is so key in these situations because with some facial and bodily surgeries, they are permanent, and if you are willing to undergo that change and spend that money, you should be enthusiastic about the accessibility to research that you have.

Start by creating a list of surgeons you have come across; look into their medical backgrounds, case studies, and techniques. Then I would recommend meeting as many as you are willing to; just know that consultations cost a lot of money, up to £200, but I see that as a good sign; it shows they are professional and value their time.

Don’t Rush

When you get the funds to do such a change, I wouldn’t rush your decision; truly sit with the fact that you want to do this and that your body or face will never look the same again. I think we are so quick to scratch that itch, and sometimes we do so to our detriment. I would recommend sitting back, dwelling and understanding truly why you want this surgery and if it’s something that you are going to want in 10 or even 20 years. Like you would do with tattoos, it should be no different.

Be Prepared Mentally

The healing process can be brutal for some people, but it also depends on the type of surgery you get, of course. However, just prepare mentally to be bored as you are mostly bedbound and are relying on the company and help from your family, partner or close friends. What I didn’t realise was how dull it all was and all the time off work I would need.

But also be prepared to go through so many fluctuations in emotions. I can describe it as excitement mixed with fear because you don’t even know what your results are going to be like, and you will be wondering if this was the right choice. Just perceive and believe in your surgeon, whom you have meticulously chosen in the first place.